Naked skin, lots of coconut oil, new intimate sensations, no shame but complete relaxation and endless pleasure – that’s a Yoni Massage.

Pronounced Yo-nee, meaning “holy temple or space”, the Yoni Massage is a full-body oil massage, which includes a woman’s most intimate place, her Vulva, her Yoni, yes, her holy temple space. 

Ok, breathe deeply in and out. It’s not a sleazy “erotic massage” with a happy ending. No, it’s much more than that. It’s about sexual healing, connection and opening up for your inner pleasures.

Letting go of tension

Even in the 21st-century sexuality is still a taboo, especially when it comes to private pleasures. Many women tend to focus on the pleasure of their partner, instead of focusing on their own.  Expressing personal desires is still something that is shameful to many women.

This shame can lead to tension inside the whole womb area. Imagine you have a stiff back because you’ve been too busy to go to the gym, and the only thing you want is to get a warm nourishing massage. A Yoni Massage can release that blocked womb tension, leading to a full rejuvenation of your body, but also of your sex life.

Discovering a new sensuality

A whole new world opens up once you start discovering new lustful zones in your body. Yoni Massage is a ritual that is carefully composed to guide you in this discovery quest. These inner pleasures are the key ingredient for healing the sexual being, freeing it from physical and emotional blockages. 

It starts with a warm-up massage, which relaxes the whole body. A safe space, professional care, silk clothes, aroma oils all help you let go. Once you are ready, the Vulva is gently integrated, and not just the outside, the inside too.

The Yoni contains a lot of emotions and feelings, and when it is touched and massaged it releases those emotions. This is the purpose: to touch the soul with the touch of the skin. This can lead to quiet happiness, joyful or sad tears, or even an ecstatic orgasm, when certain spots, such as the G-spot, clitoris or cervix (entrance of the uterus) are being massaged. Nothing is obligatory, everything is possible. 

There are around 8,000 nerves in the clitoris alone, which is only the tip of the iceberg. There are many, many more nerves inside the vaginal canal, which holds a lot of potential for new pleasures. Those intimate sensations radiate throughout the whole pelvic region, and usually extend into the whole body. That leaves us with a wonderful feeling of relaxation and contentment. But be aware: the goal is not to orgasm but to connect to your pleasures.

Where can I experience a professional Yoni Massage?

It’s not always easy to find the right Yoni massage parlour. My tip: Have a meeting beforehand where you discuss the whole process. Get a feeling for the place. Is it hygienic? Does the massage therapist have a professional background? Can you relax with them?

This massage can also be practised together with your partner. 

Some tips for the giver: Prepare a romantic space with candles and relaxing music.  Organic coconut oil is the best oil for a full-body massage and also for her Yoni. Use your intuition. Be present with her needs – ask if you’re not sure. Hold her in the space, unconditionally, without wanting anything in return.

Healing with Pleasure

Yoni massage can be a life changing experience. It was for me. Scary at first, but worth it. It’s like watering a flower that suddenly starts to bloom. It leads you right back into your body, reminding you of that sexy beautiful being that you are. Where shame and guilt have no choice but to disappear. It’s about learning to let your temple be worshipped. Pleasure – for you only. 

About the Author:

Mariah Freya went from frigidity to ecstasy. Her sexual transformation through eastern philosophy has been so moving that she has the strong urge to share her knowledge with the world. She has been blogging, podcasting and coaching on https://beducated.com/.