“The little things? The little moments? They aren’t little” Jon Kabat-Zinn 

Mindfulness is about paying attention in the present moment on purpose and without judgement. It is a powerful practice which can transform our lives. The only time we truly have is right now. When we lose presence, we run the risk of missing the moments that matter and not appreciating the value in our life. Mindfulness can change how we react to stress, how we deal with anxiety, how we interact with our friends and family and how we think, feel and behave. 

Bringing mindfulness into my life has been a game-changer. It’s enabled me to address the challenges I used to face and flip my perspective on life. I set out five of my top tips below which will help you to bring more mindfulness into your everyday life and, at the same time, make you happier.

1. Take a deep breath 

“It can still be a good day if the only thing you did was breathe.” – Johnny Lung 

Most people who teach mindfulness will start with the breath. After you read this paragraph, close your eyes. Bring to mind something that, however big, however small, you are finding difficult at the moment. Now notice the sensations that come up when you think of this. Maybe you feel it in your stomach or maybe your chest tightens. Now I want you to take five deep breaths. Inhale through the nose breathing into the belly, filling the chest and sending the breath all the way to the collar bones. Exhale slowly and mindfully through the nose. Don’t try and cover the feelings, instead, breath into them. Let them be there and use your breath to help you. 

Before you blink your eyes open, notice how those five slow breaths made you feel. Even if they helped even the tiniest amount, how incredible is that? That we have this incredibly powerful tool in-built in us that often we take for granted. Deep breathing triggers your body’s parasympathetic nervous system, or your rest and digest system, and it will also give you a greater sense of self-awareness. 

In your day to day life, pay attention to the way breathing feels. Watch your belly and chest rise and fall and feel your heartbeat. Notice how each breath looks different. This will immediately help you to feel more connected to your body and more grounded. You don’t need to change anything about the way you breathe, just being aware of your body will deepen your connection to the present. 

This ties in with meditation. There’s a good reason why many of the world’s most successful people practise meditation every day. We live in a society where everything is constantly moving, we’re surrounded by technology and we rarely switch off. It seems counterintuitive to prioritize time to be still when there are so many things to do. In fact, research shows that just 10 minutes of meditation is enough to overcome stress and anxiety, will help you block out the internal thoughts of restlessness and allow you to concentrate better. 

Start small. Start with five minutes after you wake or before bed where you simply sit and focus on your breath. Your mind will wander and that’s fine, gently bring yourself back to the breath. That simple act is mindfulness. There are loads of incredible apps out there which can help you too – my personal favourites are Headspace, Calm and Expectful.

2. Happy Habits 

Happy habits are a simple way to add more mindfulness and positivity into our lives. For me, my happy habits are in my morning and evening routine. Every morning I aim for ten minutes of meditation before I get out of bed. This doesn’t happen every day as life gets in the way. What I will say though is that when it doesn’t happen for days in a row I feel it, I notice that I get more stressed and challenges impact me more. 

After I get my kids up I then include them in the rest of the morning routine. We think of how we are going to make the day great and three things we are grateful for. Maybe we sound like the Brady Bunch but try it next week and notice how starting your day with gratitude makes a difference. Starting the day with a positive outlook can make a huge difference

My evening habits involve ending the evening with a book (even if just for 5 minutes) and thinking back over the day and thinking of three good things that happened. This has the biggest impact on the bad days. The days which force you to rethink and again flip your perspective. If the good things that happened are that you had a warm shower, saw a loved one and you had a nice dinner, those things are amazing.

3. See daily tasks as an opportunity to practice mindfulness 

Using mindfulness in daily tasks can help life feel less of a constant race and more meaningful. Folding laundry is a great example, how often do you fold laundry and let you mind race away with the day’s to-do list or alternatively maybe your mind fills with negative feelings of the relentlessness of laundry and how you have better things to do. 

Next time you’re in this situation, pay attention. Pay attention to your hands. How do they move, how do the different clothes feel under your skin? Notice the different textures and temperatures of the materials. Notice how each hand moves differently to the other. 

We overlook so much in life. Try and switch off the automatic, switch off the autopilot and pretend you’re folding for the first time. Bring gratitude into it. Be grateful for the clothes in front of you, the washing machine, the tumble dryer, the house over your head. The clothes you are folding for your children or your partner. Find gratitude that they are present in your life. It’s this simple act of being there, being present and flipping your perspective to see the beauty surrounding you rather than focusing on the negative. 

To avoid going through life on auto-pilot, consciously focus on the sensory experiences that make life worth living. Next time you are out for a walk take note of your five sense. Take your headphones out and listen to the sounds around you, look for things you haven’t noticed before, maybe even literally stop and smell the roses.

4. Listen. Really listen. 

When someone else is talking, do you often find yourself focused on your own thoughts? Thinking, do I agree, has this happened to me before? What can I say next? Did I turn the oven off? On the flip side, how many times have you experienced extreme frustration when trying to speak to someone who isn’t fully present. 

If someone is talking to us, focusing all attention on them is an act of kindness and love. You will immediately be able to think of friends you have who are brilliant at really listening and being present. Start being fully present in conversations and you’ll be surprised how many people notice and appreciate this simple act. 

This also relates to putting your phone away. Again, how many times have you been with a friend who spends half the time glancing at their phone? If you can, put it away and give your friend your full attention.

5. Immerse yourself in a meaningful hobby 

What do you love doing so much that being fully present isn’t an issue and time seems to fly when you’re doing it? Adding a mindful hobby into your life can add fulfilment, richness and most importantly fun. 

My guilty pleasure is reading and when I was little, I would stay up reading the night away. In my twenties when I had a stressful job in finance my love of reading became a distant memory and only on a holiday would I return to books. 

When I was reassessing my morning and evening routine, I realised that reading gives me time to unwind, let go of worries and simply be present. So now I read every night before bed and it brings me such joy and fulfilment. On nights I notice that my mind has started to wander and maybe I’ve read a page without taking it in, I’ll reset and go back to read with a more present mind. 

So, whatever your vice is, whether it’s a good book, cooking, dancing, colouring… find something you love and add it into your life. You won’t regret it! 

Yoga Instructor Hannah Barrett’s Strength Through Yoga: The Circuits e-Book is available now at https://www.yogagirllondon.com/product/thecircuits/ @hannahbarrettyoga